tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post6444704702615308476..comments2023-11-03T03:45:13.699-05:00Comments on Just Jules: Learning to Dance Again pt. IJust Juleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09842126422147340390noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-43574971595190376392009-05-29T14:15:49.054-05:002009-05-29T14:15:49.054-05:00Hi Jules. Even though I have not lost a child, you...Hi Jules. Even though I have not lost a child, your post really touched me. We go through this life taking so much for granted. Thank you for reminding me of that. God bless you!Candihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12220928574600321626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-58321767253112112532009-05-29T08:49:41.845-05:002009-05-29T08:49:41.845-05:00How sad, Jules. I'm glad you are learning to dance...How sad, Jules. I'm glad you are learning to dance again. It is good you carry Alyse with you, in your heart, each day.Pattern and Perspectivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05911394491083914986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-33711280102492618972009-05-28T06:05:22.435-05:002009-05-28T06:05:22.435-05:00Oh Jules,
I am very sorry you have had to endure ...Oh Jules,<br /><br />I am very sorry you have had to endure such heartache that many like me can not begin to imagine. When I see lilacs now I will remember you and your girl and say a prayer to help you to continue to find your dancing feet.Memories Of Minehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13372908229050942550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-55109775909225256922009-05-27T23:03:40.046-05:002009-05-27T23:03:40.046-05:00I've got nothing to say that you need me to say, b...I've got nothing to say that you need me to say, but I just wanted you to know that I read this, cried a little, and wish you a whole lot of love.<br />ttTara Thayerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03601662744575913963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-53460465285951427682009-05-27T10:01:56.019-05:002009-05-27T10:01:56.019-05:00......i have nothing......really, but I couldn't p.........i have nothing......really, but I couldn't pass this post without leaving a comment.<br /><br />The title instantly made me think of this song. <br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9okz7FD21U<br /><br />it doesn't relate to the subject matter other than the fact that it relates to the title.Adanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10766345537657026524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-4619482381753044972009-05-27T08:07:53.767-05:002009-05-27T08:07:53.767-05:00Such a poignant read, thank you, Julie for sharing...Such a poignant read, thank you, Julie for sharing this. I hope you'll learn to enjoy the dance soon.Pollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10085905065734027788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-16693296424338414272009-05-26T23:11:35.917-05:002009-05-26T23:11:35.917-05:00I have often wondered and been afraid to ask. Tha...I have often wondered and been afraid to ask. Thank you for sharing this part of yourself. Your words are amazing at communicating the heart. I feel I understand a little bit more and admire your courage a whole lot more. Love to you and your family. Welcome home. xxooDebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14911064672272472232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-64034154511394808092009-05-26T22:22:49.366-05:002009-05-26T22:22:49.366-05:00I hope that one day your heart heals enough to dan...I hope that one day your heart heals enough to dance through every day!Lorachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05954208521350733469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-80759595515705368462009-05-26T22:03:34.557-05:002009-05-26T22:03:34.557-05:00Jules,
thank you for sharing your story. That too ...Jules,<br />thank you for sharing your story. That too is part of the healing...<br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-49146163833598934772009-05-26T22:03:31.649-05:002009-05-26T22:03:31.649-05:00Julie, thank you for sharing your heart. There ar...Julie, thank you for sharing your heart. There are many women in my family who have lost children before they were born and one who lost a child not long after he was born. It has happened to friends of mine as well. I hope that I am spared this pain and the effort it takes to rebuild your relationship and live in the aftermath. I will email this post to friends and family, because i have no doubt it will help them to be able to speak more openly about their experiences and to know there is a way through. You have no idea how powerful your words are and how very many people you have helped by sharing them. May you keep dancing. xoxoAlexandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01431919411747685018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-42213418918914136112009-05-26T21:57:59.528-05:002009-05-26T21:57:59.528-05:00I agree with what some others wrote, your children...I agree with what some others wrote, your children are beautiful! And I have so much respect for you and what you went through and are still going through... when I have kids someday, you are a one of the many great mothers out there I'd like to emulate. Hang in there, and keep on blogging and dancing!Kaciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03665873339040399121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-33310441919915496652009-05-26T20:45:58.096-05:002009-05-26T20:45:58.096-05:00Julie, I'm so sorry. And I'm glad you can dance ag...Julie, I'm so sorry. And I'm glad you can dance again.Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13915962999372304054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-90704920237625157402009-05-26T19:34:12.088-05:002009-05-26T19:34:12.088-05:00WoW! Thanks for sharing such an intimate story! Ho...WoW! Thanks for sharing such an intimate story! How hard every day must be for you, but also so pleasing for you! Your children are beautiful and you are doing an amazing job with them! No one from anyone can make the hurt better, but I will pray for you and your family! God has a way of turning pain into joy!Missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13032317917976482505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-17301378829397178542009-05-26T19:34:00.334-05:002009-05-26T19:34:00.334-05:00I have tears as I read this. Thank you for sharing...I have tears as I read this. Thank you for sharing a very intimate part of your life.Liz Fulcher, The Fragrant Musehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15745246662315569161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-83010294730992822222009-05-26T18:44:46.889-05:002009-05-26T18:44:46.889-05:00Oh Jules... thank you for opening your heart to us...Oh Jules... thank you for opening your heart to us, it couldn't have been easy, now I see why you have such a deep heart and soul, anyone who has experienced this and survived it has so much that you've overcome.<br />Thanks again<br />hugsMari Mansourianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06003885344370531557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-41708831171389496372009-05-26T15:46:18.235-05:002009-05-26T15:46:18.235-05:00this post touches the heart in so many ways!!!! I ...this post touches the heart in so many ways!!!! I lost a baby before it was even born and the pain in that is very hard to deal with to this day...but you are right you have to learn to "dance" again...and realize that life does go on...and we do need to keep on living it...((HUGZ)) to you Jules....((hugz)) to you!!!~Thought's By Dena~/ JDs Gift Shackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12130193626736169866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-55769457840712878592009-05-26T15:29:07.858-05:002009-05-26T15:29:07.858-05:00I am so sorry for your loss. I've learned over ti...I am so sorry for your loss. I've learned over time there is nothing sufficient to say, so I say nothing but want you to just know my prayers are with you for this journey you will continue to walk. <br /><br />This is a beautiful heartfelt post. Thanks for sharing it with us! Lilacs are my faves too, and mines are barely buds still.Vickyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02595982706357639001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-23892862316317548512009-05-26T15:19:19.073-05:002009-05-26T15:19:19.073-05:00I am so sorry, Jules. I do not know how one lives...I am so sorry, Jules. I do not know how one lives with seeing the other side every day..a twin, but I do understand the wondering of how different life would be should they be with us today. We lost our first born daughter after 10 months. My only consolation is knowing that it was God's will and not ours...a bigger part of a plan that we are not aware of in the present. To an angel in heaven....Alicia @ boylerpfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11494653464202092752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-54805967512169880442009-05-26T15:16:02.235-05:002009-05-26T15:16:02.235-05:00of course you know that i relate to this on more l...of course you know that i relate to this on more levels than most...but what strikes me about the post is how fantastic it is to have the yearly ceremony/tradition of going and visiting and addie putting her hand next to her sister's hand. <br /><br />i find that it fades, but it's always somehow there. for me, the birthdays weren't ever a problem, but for a very long time, i had a problem, no, a rage, seeing people with twins and wondering why they deserved to experience it and i didn't, because having twins seemed like something so special.<br /><br />i don't feel that way anymore. thankfully, because a very good friend has twins who are now 6, but we actually weren't friends for several years because it hurt too much. <br /><br />thank you for sharing your story, it's undoubtedly a huge step towards dancing again.<br /><br />xoxox,<br />/jjulochkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10884096685015570257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4807139376983917330.post-37155518347786072162009-05-26T14:48:21.430-05:002009-05-26T14:48:21.430-05:00Thanks Jules.Thanks Jules.math guy, dock guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12901528060639055571noreply@blogger.com